Archive for February, 2014

February 17, 2014

The hell I am doing…

February 17, 2014

Lessons From My 30s

February 16, 2014

The Start of My Health & Fitness Routine – Any Advice for me?

I have some great advice that’s awesome I will email you

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I am really excited to announce a new phase in my life beginning with the journey to getting more healthy and fit and to lose weight starting with:  – 15-20 minutes on the treadmill for the first 2 weeks everyday – After 2 weeks 25 minutes for another 2 weeks everyday
then the 2nd month 30 minutes, then up to 45 minutes the 3rd month, then 1 hour after the 4th month, then I will exercise 5 days per week after the 3rd month. Just the beginning, I will need to exercise everyday and keep at it. I was thinking about it during the weekend, I said what am I doing to myself? What am I doing to my body? I need to get moving.

Then I will do some Yoga as my Body gets skinnier. Eventually I will join a Gym, but I already have a treadmill at home.

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February 16, 2014

Finding Mrs Right (or Mr Right) – Valentine’s Day Epilogue

Good Reading

Don Charisma

I’ve had a flu the past few days. I’ve been feeling rotten and just getting on with stuff as best I can. It’s not ideal, but that’s life and what analgesics are for.

Frogs And Princesses

So what about someone special in our lives ?

I’m lucky at the moment, have a lovely lady and I’m happy. But it hasn’t always been like that. I was married once and now I am not. A mistake that I’m unlikely to repeat. Why ? Because I don’t see the point in it. Well not at least in a marriage shorter than a lifetime, marry then divorce, what’s the point in that ?

I’m happy enough to be with a woman I love, and would stay with her until either of us dies. I don’t need a piece of paper, a legal status and a ceremony witnessed by my peers to prove it…

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February 16, 2014

Chinese Lanterns

Awesome photos love the colors

Don Charisma

Before I started taking photos and publishing them, I was fairly unobservant. Looking for “the photo” has made me a lot more observant, and also a lot more ready. Practice with the camera (or in my case iPhone) means that it’s quick(ish) from thought to photo. Opportunities can pass quickly and if one isn’t even noticing things then there aren’t that many opportunities !

This was taken at my local shopping centre/mall, there’s an oval shaped opening which extends from ground floor all the way up to the roof. This display hangs in the space and is just a breathtaking array of colour. So enjoy 🙂

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February 16, 2014

The Trust Factor ….. Is That X or Y

 

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So, its been a little rough since my last post and I have a great deal of time to think about what I wanted to post and well I kept coming up short. My own personal moments all but took over my ability to focus, think and get shit done – I have decided to use a partial journal entry (yes pen and paper….a real journal) as my post.

I would ask only that anyone who reads this post that they not feel pity, sadness or any negative emotion I am just sharing how I feel/felt and I am working this out.

“Busted! Last night I was laying in bed not able to sleep playing this dumb little no-mind gam when I get this email….from my husband. I open it and discover he’s asked out another woman for a hike just the two of them, I have to admit I couldn’t believe what I was reading. In addition, yesterday he had received a text message from the bitch telling him what she was doing etc. and when I asked him who was texting him on a Sunday morning he smiled that big smile and told me someone from work and wouldn’t give me a name I knew at least it was a woman judging by the fucking dance he was doing about not wanting to tell me who it was. Saturday, as I sat here like an asshole waiting for him to come back from the gym I now have figured out he was out with her, he said he was “test driving vehicles – we are in the process of buying a vehicle”. I think my sweet husband decided that I was at the gym (how would I know) and met up with her and they went for lunch, hold on it gets better and then he went to her place for coffee? Yes, he did admit that! I woke my husband up at 1:15am this morning because I couldn’t believe what I had received and was actually reading. Of course he says he has done nothing but really my gut is telling me something different. I feel so very hurt and sad and mad about this I can barely stay focused.”

So, what does it all mean? Haven’t got a clue but I figured out that if your love for someone is strong than it is possible to accept that anyone even the greatest love of your life can have a ‘slip’ and forgiving is part of that love. I am loyal to a fault so this feels 20x worse than just feeling bad 😦 I have decided to try to trust him and enjoy him the way that I want too, of course I believe that I will always have my doubts and that this situation may rear its ugly head at the most inappropriate times but my love for him is so great that I am willing to forgo the ugly possibilities.

Am I the X or the Y….I think the X.

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